Hello Virginia! (10/31/08)

October has FLOWN by… on second thought, these FOUR months have flown by! I can’t believe I’m starting my fifth month as Miss Virginia… nearly half way through my year. I wish time would slow down a bit so I could savor every moment a little more.  I have barely stopped moving  since my plane touched down from LA, so I have much to catch you all up on!

 

After returning from LA, I was honored to be a guest speaker at the Open Door Resource Center silent auction fundraiser. The ODRC is an incredible organization headed up by my new friend, Linwood Alfred.  The organization provides resources for those infected with HIV/AIDS in the Richmond area.  I spoke about today’s youth being the “AIDS Generation” since we have never known a world without the disease. Linwood and my other friends at ODRC are working hard to make the next generation the “AIDS-FREE Generation”. Later in the week, I visited the Richmond Children’s Hospital, a Children’s Miracle Network hospital where I toured their facilities and saw the wonderful specialized care they offer. I look forward to going back again soon! Afterwards, I met with Rebecca Worth, a designer from Sylvan Spirit, who will be designing a line of jewlery inspired by me: “strong, yet feminine”.  This week I also visited my sponsors at Elizabeth Arden and went on a $500 shopping spree (my Mom will be very excited about this on her birthday in a couple of weeks!), and I was given a surprise, edgy new hairstyle for the fall from the talented stylists at Zee’s!

 

Next up, I headed to Northern Virginia for the Marine Corps Marathon! The Saturday before the marathon, I lent a hand at the Kids Fun Run. The enthusiasim of the young atheletes was awesome; not even the rain could put a damper on our fun.  For those of you who have never dealt with naturally curly hair, the rain and dampness inspire my curls to have a mind of their own… But before the kids run, I was having a good hair day as a guest at the Washington Capitals/ INOVA blood drive.  The burning question on the minds of the many CAPS fans donating blood that morning:  How do I attach the crown to my goalie helmet. ..The question set my imagination churning…a helmet with a crown on it could face down any slap shot, I’m sure!  After the blood drive, I went straight to the kids run where my smile and my hair continued to grow! Rain or shine, good hair day or bad, I am loving every second of my time as Miss Virginia!

 

On Sunday, the actual Marine Corps Marathon, there were blue skies and sunshine as our backdrop.  I met up with our photographer extraordinaire, Julius, and Miss DC 2008, Kate-Marie.  Together we cheered on the runners which included my new friend, Andy Baldwin from the Bachelor. (Yes, he is both an Officer and a Gentleman).  The determination witnessed at the finish line has inspired me to add “compete in a marathon” to my “bucket list”... I better start hitting the treadmill now!

 

October ended with a weekend at my alma mater, Penn State University, where I was asked to drop the ceremonial puck at the Penn State Icers hockey game.  As many of you know, I was the starting goalie for the Lady Icers while I was in college.  After the game, I was invited to take a special role at the Icers/ Lady Icers auction fundraiser.   To my surprise, when bidding for “Brunch with Miss Virginia!” opened, I was shocked to see several Icers players dominate.  There was a back and forth of bids before the auctioneer’s gavel sounded “SOLD!”  I ended up raking in nearly $200 for the Lady Icers!  Thank you to my new friend, Jamie Zimmel, #14 on the Icers, and his teammates for supporting women’s hockey! J

 

In other news this month has been a wondermonth. I am really starting to get into my groove with “Right Decisions, Right Now” presentations. I have already spoken to thousands of children as Miss Virginia and I feel like I’ve given and received nearly as many hugs!  I’ve also racked up thousands of miles on the road.  I’ve started to map my territory by leaving an autograph and picture at every gas station, rest stop, and restaurant I visit along my many road trips.  I think I’ll call it my, “Miss VA Was Here” Campaign.  Keep an eye out for them!

 

One road trip I wish I didn’t have to make was to a hospital in Norfolk to visit Tamika Mills, my good friend and local titleholder who was in a car crash.  I was excited when I arrived, though, to see so many other supporters from the MVO community join me at her bedside. I saw the same outpouring of support when I visited Pat Irby, long-time MVO volunteer and friend who is bravely fighting breast cancer.  I have been reassured that both Tamika and Pat will be just fine, but please keep them both in your prayers.  I am so proud to be a part of such a wonderful and caring organization.

 

Looking ahead to my schedule, I have some exciting things coming up! I will be the goalie in a charity shoot out with Virginia Tech’s men’s hockey team and fans to raise money for CMN on November 21, and I have another charity shoot out in the works with the Norfolk Admirals (www.norfolkadmirals.com) minor league professional hockey team later that week!  I am also looking forward to keeping busy with many more RDRN presentations (three in one day next Monday!). Along with my hectic appearance schedule, I am also working with my amazing Miss Virginia prep team to perfect my song and wardrobe. I’d also like to thank the many groups of volunteers across the state who have formed mock interview panels as preparation for Miss America.  We are Team Virginia…

See you on the road!

All my best,

Tara

PS: I’m writing this during a rare visit to my parent’s house and I have been told to inform you all that my dad is cool. J


 

Hello Virginia!!!! (Oct. 13)

 

I know I'm a little bit late on my newsletter but they kept us pretty busy in LA!!  Before I get to LA though, I'll recap on what happened right before I left:

The week before I jet-setted to Los Angeles was very full! I started off as a guest at the Sneaker Ball which is an event put on by the Greater Washington Sports Alliance to honor the top professional athletes, past and present, in the Greater Washington Area.  I was so excited to present the Athlete of the Year award to Alex Ovechkin of the Washington Capitals!  All of my hockey friends were extremely jealous I'm sure. J  Alex was very humble and sweet and I also got to meet a few of the other Caps players which was great since I will likely be doing a lot of work with their team this year (possibly a charity shoot-out to benefit Children's National Medical Center where I'll be the goalie!).  

That week, I also did two appearances with Miss America, Kirsten Haglund.  I am in awe of her.  Our first appearance together was visiting the troops at Walter Reed Army Medical Center.  Her red-eye flight came in late and she barely had time to put on makeup and get ready but she was glowing with inner beauty and positive energy when I met up with her. Visiting Walter Reed was very important to me.  I was honorably discharged from the Air Force Reserves in 2006; my dad is a former Army Paratrooper who has been to Iraq three times; and I lost a high school friend and classmate in the war in Iraq.  I personally understand that our troops deserve the utmost honor and appreciation so visiting our warriors means a great deal to me.  A new friend, Leeann Tweeden, FHM cover model and TV host, joined us at Walter Reed.  Leeann has done several overseas tours with the USO so it was awesome to have her along with us!

That night, I was a guest at the Goodwill Charity Fashion Show at the French Embassy in Washington, DC where I walked away with a beautiful dress and fashionable shoes for under $20 from the Goodwill store.

The next day Kirsten, Leeann, and I met up again, along with Andrew Baldwin from "The Bachelor" TV show, for USO Casino Night. We played Vegas Style gambling games with fake money for prizes for the Wounded Warriors who joined us.  

The next morning, it was back to the Roanoke area for the Salem Fall Festival, a Miss Virginia Fundraiser. That evening, I did an event with the Virginia Tech men's ice hockey team at the Civic Center in Roanoke called "Put Breast Cancer on Ice" to raise money for the Susan G. Komen Foundation.  I was given a personalized pink hockey jersey and I did the honorary puck drop and even refereed a youth hockey game between periods!  I also played a nasty joke on my local director when I had my mom call him and pretend that one of the kids had knocked my tooth out during the game… he wasn't too happy with me!

I was off to LA the next morning but the trip wasn't too smooth. I was supposed to leave Roanoke at 10am… instead, my flight got cancelled so I drove four hours to Dulles Airport and finally left close to 10PM and arrived in LA at 12:30am (3:30am our time!).  I'm sure Miss America has much longer, more strenuous days than that so I'm considering it on-the-job training. J

Now, I know you all would love to hear everything about the reality show… and believe me, I'm dying to spill the beans… but I can't. L  I can tell you about all of the wonderful excursions we went on while we were in LA between breaks in filming.

The first weekend was super fun and super busy!  We started off with a tour of Warner Brother's Studios. We pranced around the set of "Friends", saw where they filmed "Annie", "Don't Mess with the Zohan", and even where the famous upside down kiss happened in "Spider Man". Then we made our way to the set of "Ghost Whisperer" and met actor/comedian Jamie Kennedy.  After a lunch break, it was time for the Ellen Show!  Ellen had a special assignment for the Miss America contestants - lure George Clooney to the set!  We chanted and sang and tried our best but George was a no-show.  We did, however, snag Mario Lopez for a few minutes and that was not too shabby!

Next up we were guests on the KTLA morning show then headed to IHOP to promote National Pancake Day to benefit Children's Miracle Network.  After flipping and stacking and eating, I discovered you can have lots of fun with a pancake!

Later in the day we headed to the Los Angeles Zoo and saw some beautiful and some disturbing things… As best as I can put this in G-rated MAO terms, one chaperone excitedly called all of the contestants over to witness "the miracle of life", what she thought was a kangaroo giving birth… well, this particular kangaroo happened to be a boy and it was definitely NOT giving birth! Needless to say, she was the joke of the day!

Another fun event was visiting the LA Angels baseball game. We got to just relax, be casual, and have fun… but the ball players definitely knew we were there!  We spent most of the game waving "yoo hoos" at whoever was looking our way.  I doubt the coaches were very happy!

On our days off, we were guests at several incredible posh restaurants, including the Balboa Bay Club where "The OC" TV show was filmed.  We also met the Mayor of Manhattan Beach on the pier.  I felt like I was in some crazy movie and this was supposed to be our days OFF from filming!

The rest of the 3 weeks was spent on location filming "Countdown to the Crown".  I'm dying to tell you something so I'll tell you all as much as I can: the place we were filming is haunted… and I mean HAUNTED!  It's known for being one of the most haunted places in the world and there have been several documentaries about it...  My roommate, Miss Illinois,  and I were so scared that we were going to the bathroom with the door wide open… and we weren't the only ones!  Speaking of my roomie and the other girls, I LOVE the MAO class of 2009!  Much of our time was spent hurry-up-and-wait style. Our schedules told us to be camera ready by 5:30am but we wouldn't start shooting until 10am.  Then, lunch wouldn't be until 6pm and dinner, after midnight. We spent a lot of our time in holding rooms eating junk food, playing cards, and just getting to know each other which was fabulous.  I just got home yesterday and I'm already missing my girls!

In short, I've determined that reality TV is a far cry from reality, and the Miss America Class of 2009 sisterhood is more amazing and more valuable than anything I could have ever imagined.  Sometimes filming the reality show got to be frustrating and nerve-wrecking and exhausting but I know there are 10,000 girls across the country that would love to be in our place and I am so grateful for this opportunity. Who can say they've been on a reality TV show?  Now I can!

So, I'm back in good old VA and ready to get back to work!  I just found out last night that tomorrow I am giving a 20-minute speech on a very unfamiliar topic which just proves that you're Miss VA 24/7 and you have to be ready for anything!  After my speech I'll be spending the next two weeks travelling all over Virginia doing a variety of appearances.  It feels good to be thrown right back into the job again.  My three weeks in a reality TV bubble were fun, but I'm happy and ready to be back in Virginia surrounded by all of the wonderful volunteers and contestants in this program that I love so much!

See you on the road!

Tara

(Sept. 04) A couple of weeks ago I realized something that I hope every future Miss Virginia realizes early on in her reign - Yes, it's my year… but it's not just my year.

 

 I received an e-mail from Miss Virginia 1960, Catherine Daniel, telling me how proud she was of me and that I was doing a great job. She also shared with me some of her most memorable experiences as Miss Virginia 1960.  Her e-mail really put my position into perspective for me: I am not only working hard as Miss Virginia for myself, I am working hard for the women who came before me, the supporters of this organization and everyone who volunteers their time to help me, and for all of the women who will wear this crown after me.  I am working hard for Miss Virginia 1960 and all of my sisters who are still watching to make sure I do this title justice.

So, with that being said, here are some of the highlights from what I've been doing in the last month:

At the beginning of August, I had the honor of visiting the Marines at Quantico and climbed aboard HMX-1 (the president's helicopter!!!). I  sat in George Bush's chair and even ate some presidential M&M's! I also spent time with many of the Marines on base, tried on yet another fireman's outfit, and was invited to the Marine Corps Ball (even though I'm prior Air Force and my dad was in the Army, I will still admit the Marine's were fun! Hooah!)

I will always have a special bond with those who serve our country.  A good friend of mine and former Lady Icers teammate, Lauren Shaw, is currently in Iraq with her Army unit.  Shortly after my visit with the Marines, I got a choppy, delayed, but ecstatic phone call from her saying "Wheels!!!! You're Miss Virginia!!!  I'm calling you from Baghdad to tell you how excited my whole unit is about Miss America right now!!".  Needless to say, that call made my day!

Next up, I made the exciting trip to Orlando for the Miss America's Outstanding Teen pageant!  I was completely blown away by the talent and charisma of the teen contestants, especially our own Miss Virginia's Outstanding Teen, Lexie OverholtLexie is an incredible young woman and I am SO proud of her!  Also, Virginia has another young woman to be proud of: Shannon Beam!  I just found out that my very good friend and Miss Virginia roomie placed in the top 5 at the Sweetheart pageant!  I'm definitely a member of the BEAM TEAM!  While in Orlando I was also able to meet over 40 of the Miss America contestants. Sometimes when a group of talented, successful women get together there's jealousy.  But what makes the Miss America program so unique is when we get together, there's mutual respect and admiration.  I am so blessed to have these incredible women in my life and have already gotten close to many of them.  In fact, I had a nice chat with Miss Vermont on the phone the other night while I was making a long drive home from an appearance!

 In Orlando, the red-carpet was really rolled out for us!  We were given a VIP tour of Disney World (we got to cut in line, ride Space Mountain over and over… it was fabulous), we took a trip to Sea World (disregard the hair, it was SO humid!!), AND we went to a posh MAO fundraiser party at David and Jaqueline Seigel's house and saw Shaquille O'Neal and his children in the neighborhood!  At one point I turned to another contestant in disbelief and said "Look at our lives right now! How lucky are we!?"  I also was able to meet Miss America, Kirsten Haglund, who is the most poised, beautiful, down-to-earth, incredible young woman I've ever met in real life.  She is an amazing role model and I am honored at the chance to compete to fill her shoes. I am looking forward to seeing all of my new friends in LA next month for the Miss America Reality Check filming!  Thank you to Linda Haas for taking care of me in Orlando!

On a side note (because I think many of you will get a kick out of this story), a few days before I went to Orlando, I was a bridesmaid in one of my best friend's weddings. The day before the wedding, in front of the whole bridal party, I fell down an ENTIRE flight of stairs. I'm talking 20+ steps and I went all the way down.  The bride's dad came running because he thought someone had dropped a box of wedding decorations down the stairs… he thought it had to have been an inanimate object because "there's no way a PERSON could have fallen all the way down and not found a way to stop themselves".  Believe me, I tried to stop myself, grab onto something, but apparently I don't do anything half-way.  I was shaken up, bruised all over, but still laughing along with everyone else when one of the groomsman stood up and said "Wow! How are you feeling, Miss Virginia?!"

"Graceful" was my response.  Let's hope I got this out of my system before Miss America ("Team Awkward" ladies, I definitely represented!).

Now on to more highlights: I am now a spokesperson for America's Promise and will be working closely with their anti-high school drop-out campaign. I'm very excited about that! I am driving my new sponsor car and I LOVE it!  Thank you so much to Steve Niswander and John Herrity of Alexandria GMC and Chevrolet for all of your help and for setting me up so nicely!  I was recently able to meet with Ethel and the staff at The Encounter and began working on my Miss America wardrobe. The Encounter made me feel incredible about myself and at ease with the process of creating my wardrobe and I'm so pumped to be working with them!  I had a great time with Vicki Gudger too!  I was also a guest at the Propeller Club golf tournament. Thank you to Jeanie Baldwin (HHD and HNN Co-ED) for the fun and hospitality while I was in Suffolk for the tournament.

Speaking of the Propeller Club golf tournament, while I was there, I sunk a $1,000 putt for CMN and met a wonderful gentleman, Geoff Clark, whose company, Kitco Fiber Optics, sponsored me at the tournament. Recently, Mr. Clark's family was in Roanoke and invited me to join them for dinner which brings me to now, the end of my second month, where I've seen many things come full circle:

I met Mr. Clark, his wife Sandy, and his granddaughter Madison at the Hotel Roanoke for dinner and it was such a treat! Madison had been looking forward to meeting me for quite a while and I must say that I was excited to meet her as well!  During dinner, Mr. Clark had the whole restaurant stand up and toast to me which definitely made me blush a bit! After the toast many of the patrons came up to take pictures and ask for my autograph and I was really feeling like a star!  Then, one of the waitresses came up to me and told me about her brother, Roy, who is at Carillion battling leukemia.  I remembered Roy.  When I visited Carillion last month, he was too sick to see me so I made a big sign that said "Hi Roy!" and took a picture with the sign for him.  His sister told me that he was so thrilled to get that picture and sign from me and she gave me a huge hug. Her telling me that made me feel more amazing than had a million people wanted my autograph.  It's crazy. You never know how much little things you do can touch someone's life.

Mr. Clark and his family are new fans of the Miss America program.  They have seen through meeting me, how much this program and it's contestants touch lives.  Because of this, Mr. Clark has offered a generous donation to the Miss Virginia program and I hope he knows how very thankful I am for his support!

It's impossible to talk about everything I've done this month in one newsletter or it would be WAY too long (as it probably is already!)!  I will say that I've been very busy and loving it!  In the past 3 days I've spent 20 hours on the road and I'll be honest, I'm getting a little tired of my CD's.  If anyone has any suggestions of books on CD or musicians that I need to check out, please send them my way!  I'm looking forward to what the next month has in store for me… and it's hard to believe the next newsletter will come from LA!!!

All my best,

Tara

 

"To whom much is given, much is expected."  Luke 12:48

 A few nights ago, I stopped at a Sheetz gas station off I-81 around midnight on my way back to Roanoke from an appearance and started chatting with the attendant there.  She got really excited, asked for my autograph, told me she was so glad she came to work, and that I had made her day.  The other day, I was at CVS and two girls about my age recognized me and asked to take their pictures with me.  They also said I had made their day.

Little did they know, they all had made MY day!

Everywhere I go, people are so excited to see me. They present me with gifts, flowers, and shower me with compliments to thank me for being there.   Thank ME? Thank YOU!  I am living my dream and it's thanks to everyone who is supporting me and every other participant in this program; everyone who is still excited about Miss Virginia and still sees what an incredible organization it is.

I have been so blessed in the first month as Miss Virginia.  I have an amazing team behind me that has been up til the wee hours of the morning with me working on Miss America paperwork, finding the perfect song, the best headshot (I'm not very photogenic so this one really stressed me!), all of which were due right away!  I wanted to hit the ground running as Miss Virginia and I definitely did.  As you can probably tell by the photos on the appearance page, I've been having tons of fun so far!  I've thrown first pitches, ridden in parades, visited wounded soldiers and children's hospitals, done countless press interviews (many while driving to appearances… no worries, I've got a hands free set!), and I even got to hang out with Ethan Zohn, the winner of Survivor Africa! 

Even on the days where it looks like nothing is scheduled, I'm still keeping pretty busy.  Caitlin Uze called me one day and left a message saying jokingly, "I looked on the appearance page and it says you've got nothing so why aren't you picking up your phone?!" J  Well, I missed her call because I was meeting with Senator Jill Vogel to to talk about joining the national "Helping America's Youth" initiative. ( I did find time during a day off to meet with Caitlin and Melissa Albright to catch up over dinner a few days later!)

I have also had many meetings with sponsors and potential partners.  I am now working with the Foundation For A Better Life (www.forbetterlife.org) on their national campaign, and the rumors are true:  Miss Virginia has a new car sponsor… I'll be hitting the road soon in a brand new Chevy Malibu thanks to Alexandria GMC!

I've gotten to do so much already but I believe that my favorite times so far have been the times that I touched the life of a child.  I was at Children's National Medical Center and I met a 3 year-old cancer patient who really wanted to talk to me because she needed to be inspired to be a princess again.  All over her room, there were pictures of tiaras and castles and she was known to staff members as "the princess"… but the day before I came to visit she had decided she didn't want to be a princess anymore because it was "too hard to wear the crown".  This little girl has lost her hair because of her treatment and her crown won't stay on..  Well, we hung  out together for quite awhile and took a few pictures of her wearing my crown.  When she saw the polaroids, she decided that she did look pretty good as a princess and she would keep on being one.  I also visited with Libby and her mom who met with all of the contestants during Miss Virginia week and her friend Allyson at Carilion in Roanoke.  Libby and Allyson were there for treatment but you would have never known it by the smiles on their faces when they found out Miss Virginia was coming!

Which brings me back to "To whom much is given, much is expected".  Every second of this last month has been great but my greatest times so far haven't been riding in parades waving to adoring fans, it's been dancing with the kids at the fair after the parade.  It's been the times where someone at a gas station told me I made their day when really they made mine.  It's inspiring a three year-old cancer patient to feel like a princess again.

I am so blessed to have this title and the support of so many.  I am constantly thinking about what I can do to give back.  It's been a month and I hope I've been making you all proud.  I am so proud to be your Miss Virginia.

 Tara

July Newsletter

 

I'm sitting with my brand-new laptop (thanks Julius!), in my pajamas, wearing my crown and sash, with a million thoughts running through my head.  I'd like to start off by thanking everyone who has helped me get to where I am today.  My incredible family, friends, Ric, my directors and committees (both from Blue Ridge and Arlington), you all have always believed in me even when I doubted myself.  You all have always seen Miss Virginia within me.  Thank you to all of the volunteers, chaperones, escorts, drivers, security, choreographers, and everyone else who made this week one of the best weeks of my life.  Thank you to everyone on the Miss Virginia board for welcoming me with open arms.  I am beyond excited for the year we have ahead of us.  I know together we will accomplish great things for this organization.

 

I want to thank all of the contestants.  YOU ALL ARE INCREDIBLE!  It has been a privilege competing with you and I look forward to working together as a team all year long. I am only one person and Miss Virginia can not make this program thrive all alone.  Our success this year depends largely on the local titleholders who are out there promoting their platforms, the Children's Miracle Network, and the Miss Virginia Organization.  I am so proud of all of your hard work and I hope you continue to use your titles to the fullest.

 

Hannah, you are an inspiration. I have some big shoes to fill and I will work my hardest to follow your advice and "leave it better than I found it".

 

I am grateful, honored, and ready for this job.  I have always believed in striving to foster a servant's heart; for those who serve the most, grow the fastest.  I will represent this great organization with class and I promise I will never take one minute for granted that I am Miss Virginia.

 

We are all a united team working for a common goal and with passion for this program.

 

All my best,

Tara